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Escaping a new reality

For our clients with severe and permanent injuries change after an accident or medical error suddenly their ability to participate in daily life, while daily life remains unchanged.

As a personal injury lawyer who gets to assist these clients, I hear them talk about the impact of this loss. How it is to be unable to get out of words, making participating in conversation a struggle. To therefore look up to parties and increasingly decide not to go. What it's like not being able to go out for a drink with a group of friends because none of the restaurants in the neighborhood are accessible by wheelchair. What it's like to be unable to work due to a serious back injury, leaving you with identically empty days. What it is like to see your adolescent always tired due to injury and stay home, losing connection with his peers. As a personal injury lawyer, I know the frustration, strange form of imprisonment and loneliness that speaks from this new reality of our clients.

What to say when (your client's) loved one tells you about these life-changing events? I'm not going to respond then based on the liability law and start talking about damages or affection damage. And in the absence of similar experiences, it feels inappropriate to say that I understand my clients' feelings. My realization that we have no idea what our clients must live through has been magnified since the quarantine by corona.

For all of us, our daily lives suddenly changed, while our opportunities to participate in daily life remain unchanged.

The frustration, strange form of imprisonment and loneliness described by our clients suddenly becomes more palpable. Better, but not yet truly palpable. For us, there are opportunities for escape. And by knowing a hope that our limitations are temporary. And even then, the quarantine falls hard on everyone.

I think then of what my clients say who are coping well with their plight: let's focus on our loved ones and make the best of what is and can be.

Amsterdam, Feb. 11, 2021

If you have questions about this blog, please contact the author, Christa Wijnakker.